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Sat Dec 29, 2018 6:24 am
So, I found out through a few mutual friends, that a person we knew from kindergarten, died last night thanks to blood clots in her lungs. It's a huge bloody shock to all of us. I only saw her a few weeks ago at the local shopping center and she was wheeling along one handed while holding her son's hand with her free hand. We smiled at each other and waved and both carried on with what we were doing. Who would have thought that just a few days after Christmas, she would die? I didn't and I've been messaging a few people who also knew her to let them know. I've also asked a mutual friend to keep an eye out for the funeral notice and hopefully it is on a day when I am back from visiting my uncle, so that I can go and say my goodbyes...even though we weren't close, but even though we weren't close, I still consider her a friend from my youth.

And now I am crying. Like I said, conflicting emotions. Sigh
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Sat Dec 29, 2018 6:57 am
That's so sad. Especially when you just saw them a few weeks ago and, from what I can tell, nothing seemed wrong and they were living their normal lives. It's always hard with a friend close to you dies, but it's especially hard when no one sees it coming.

Even if you weren't close, it's more than understandable that you'd be upset with their passing. They were a friend, even if they weren't a close one.

I'm sending my best wishes to you, anyone affected by her passing, and her family. I lost someone close to me last year, so I know it's difficult.
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Sat Dec 29, 2018 1:10 pm
I'm sorry to hear this Bo. Death is often a shock to us... something that we don't fully expect to hit us the way it does ... until it does - especially when it comes to somebody young and in apparent good health. Sad Please accept my condolences.
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Mon Jan 07, 2019 7:54 pm
Whelp...today is the day where we say goodbye to Sam. Not only am I emotional about the loss, but there is a high probability that I am going to see and interact with people I haven't seen in over 20 years. And in terrible circumstances too. Sigh

Time to go to uni, register for my class and then come back and say goodbye. Sad
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Mon Jan 07, 2019 11:45 pm
I'm sorry for your loss Bo. I hope today goes as well as can be expected for you. *hugs*
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Tue Jan 08, 2019 1:21 am
**sending you a hug**
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Tue Jan 08, 2019 9:31 am
There were so many people there. My best mate who gave me a lift home, was telling me she wasn't sure if she was going to go. She was at school longer with her, basically all the way through. Another friend who left at the same time as me, was in the same mind frame, but we were all in agreement that, we knew her, so we were going to pay our respects to her.

While it was good to catch up with people from a long, long, long time ago, it was just terrible circumstances. So...I got the job of creating a facebook group for our school year. And that is only because I spend too much time on there. It's sad that it took a funeral for it to happen, but the first step is done and hopefully this year we will have a catch up...before 2021 when it will be 30 god damned years since we started school together. thunk
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